Gentlemen, I need your advice...

by Marcie
(Ohio)

My husband is 56 years old. We have been happily married for thirty years.

Our sex life has always been good, although in recent years it's slowed down a bit.

I imagine at this age it's to be expected.

During the last month or two my spouse has not showed any interest in sex.

When I try to initiate some romance in the bedroom, he ignores my overtures and tells me he is not feeling up to it.

I suspect my husband has ED, but he is not open to discussing the matter.

When I raise the subject he gets angry.

Any ideas on how I can help him and get our sex life back to normal?